Friday, February 5, 2010

Gettin crafty...

There is a massive pile of dishes in the sink.

We're leaving for a week-long trip in less than 7 hours and I'm not quite finished packing.

And I have about a million things to do before we leave.

So of course, it's the perfect time to blog!!

(In my defense, I was up at 5am with a certain someone in our house who shall for the time being remain nameless to protect his/her anonymity but it's rhymes with "Bendra" and even though I was back in bed by 5:30, I didn't get back to sleep before the alarm went off at 7:10, thanks to another certain someone in our house whose name rhymes with "Brant" rolling over in such a way that his/her armpit hairs went up my nose, if any of you know how the physics of that works, I'm all ears. So, I'm a little fried and feeling kinda lazy.)

For some background on this post, the Christmas I was 8 my great-grandparents handed each of the great-grandchildren a check for $100--and this was 19 years ago when $100 went a lot further than it does now. So, one day during Christmas vacation we went shopping and I used $25 of it to buy crochet lessons.

Fast forward 19 years and I realize my baby needs a scarf...

Ta-da!

Now she's ready for the fierce Chicago winds.
Or to rob a bank, I guess.

This picture isn't particularly relevant, but it's kinda funny because she's clearly squirming away.

I really enjoyed making the scarf, so I remembered I had five or six skeins of yarn laying around (I was going to make myself a little lap afghan for my very first apartment, but 3 weeks later Grant asked me to marry him and I pretty much forgot about it altogether) so I went a'Googling to see if I could find a pattern for something else...

And approximately one and a half seasons of Charmed later, I came up with something I liked.

Ta-da!

What is it, you ask?

It's my new movie-watching shawl!

So cozy!

Well. That was fun to share, but I have carefully gone through our folders and there just aren't any more stories to blog. Dang. I guess I should get to my dishes, my packing and other items of bidniz that need my attention...

Oohhhhhhhhhhhhh....

Sunday, January 31, 2010

FUN!



Yeah, these just speak for themselves...

Friday, January 29, 2010

Hodge podge post

So, here's a bunch of random pictures and stories that for whatever reason, haven't yet made it to the blog...

For those of you who haven't been to Hungary, all of the cities there set up these really neat Christmas markets in the town square (and all over the place in the capitol). I got to see several of them because I moved into a new area during the season and I visited a third to exchange companions for a day. Well, here in Chicago they have this every year, which is very much the same. So one evening I brought Kendra into the city and we walked to it with Grant after he was done with work.

It was small, but cute. My only disappointment was that not a single merchant there was from Hungary. I didn't have my hopes up too high since it's a "German" market, but still. It seemed like there were people there from every other country in Eastern Europe.

I've mentioned to several people how excited I am about a new discovery in my neck of the woods. I found a shopping center right off the highway (which I live right off of, too) with a Wal-mart (that is currently being remodeled into a Super Center!), Sam's Club with a gas station, Target, Kohl's and PetCo all in the same parking lot! That's like every single store I go to! And there are several other useful stops just down the road from it, it's awesome because not only is it a great concentration of shopping, since it's off the highway I can get to it in 15 minutes! AND since it's out of the city limits, sales taxes are significantly lower, so it's cheaper too! AND I'm even using less gas to get there because it's virtually all highway miles instead of all stop-and-go! It's win, win, win!

Well, the first time I ran into PetCo, I took my time to give my baby some free entertainment.

She seemed equally interested in the birds and the fish...actually, going to the pet store for amusement was a trick I picked up from my employer when I was a nanny. I took the youngest there many, many times. I wish I could take her to Pet World in my hometown...they have so much cool stuff in there! It's literally like a free zoo.

Moving along, though...Grant borrowed a 2nd flash from a coworker and took a few shots and here are a couple we never posted...

I love when we digitally capture something we see all the time, like that face right there. So cute!

Speaking of stuff we see all the time...she's pretty funny when she wakes up from a nap. That is, if she's noisy when she wakes up and we go and get her (I'm convinced that she often doesn't start crying until she's already been up for a very long time).

Check out that little lock of hair in the back sticking straight up!

We happened to have a busted phone laying around...they make great chew toys.

She carried it around in her mouth that whole evening for some reason. Funny girl.

And finally, have I mentioned lately how much my husband cracks me up? I walked into the kitchen one evening earlier this week to find this:

Apparently, there really is always room for Jell-O...

So much fun happening in our family!

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Family Photos

Our only request from Grant's mother for Christmas was a family photo. Well, after our attempts to do it at home turned into one big, fat (albeit really funny) FAIL, I convinced the Farns to boldly go where we haven't gone before: a portrait studio.

I was a little discouraged at first because we got a lot of shots like this:


But the photographer knew what she was doing, even with a squirming 10-month-old at the end of napless day (that's right, our session was at 4pm and she refused to go down for a nap beforehand, awesome). We didn't waste our time...

Now, I went in merely hoping I could convince Grant to get one family portrait and maybe two or three of Kendra...however I was the one who had to reign him in. "Yes, of course they're great shots...but how many of these do you actually want to bring home." The answer? In correct Farns terminology: "Approximately one point five buttloads." We came home with TONS of pictures! So far the only pictures we've had in our place was this Greg Olson print of Christ someone gave me when I was baptized and the awesome photo mosaic Grant made of a shot from our wedding that we had printed up on a poster. It feels all grown-up and stuff to actually have pictures up on the walls... Here's what we did in the living room:

And here's our hallway:

It's pretty cute, the door to Kendra's room is immediately opposite that family shot, so we walk by these photos many times a day getting her up from sleep, putting her down for sleep and changing her diaper. She totally lights up and gets excited every time she sees them. Maybe one of these days, I'll remember when Grant's home so that we can capture it on video...

And we have so many prints that not only do we have to stagger them around the house, we also will have to cycle them out to make sure they all get displayed!

And that's just the 10x13 ones we bought--if you have any interest in owning a shot of our family or Kendra, we can totally hook you UP!

Friday, January 22, 2010

Upgrading!

One night a while back, I was having a bad night. A really bad night. So bad that I woke Grant up in the middle of it an announced in a very aggressive manner, "WE NEED A NEW BED!" Our full-sized Ikea hand-me-down just wasn't cutting it anymore.

I admitted afterward that our need wasn't as dire as I made it seem when I initially brought up the subject, but the Farns loves his little Ashoflower, so did what the Farns does best: he went to work researching! After a trip to the mattress store and MUCH deliberation, we made our choice and had it shipped to us. The box though large made it a little difficult to believe there was a dang queen-sized mattress in there...


We were all ready for it and had it set up very quickly once Grant got home. Here's our new bedroom!

It's 12" memory foam mattress, and it's pretty darn cozy. We are very satisfied customers! It came just in time because this week, I've been feeling so tired, that Grant came home to find us snuggled up in bed last night.

He took the opportunity to use his two favorite girls as subjects for some crafty camera work. I think the shots turned out really well, even if I do say so myself...
Yep, she's my buddy.
And the lamb is her buddy.

But, I always save my favorite for last...
I've said it before and I'll say it again, this Mommy gig totally rocks!

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Catching up

Why does it feel like I absolutely never blog anymore?

Lately, Kendra has gained more confidence in her various forms of mobility. We have a small table by our desk here where we set our printer, and we've been rather surprised to find her under it several times.


The first time she started crying and we couldn't figure out where she was for a few moments, but then she figured out how to free herself and it's lost it's mystique, apparently.

I can't remember whether or not we reported on the blog that she cut her first top tooth about a month ago--we've been trying to get a picture of it, but so far the best we can get is this.

Yeah, she's hanging upside down, I didn't forget to edit the picture.

Also, someone might have had a birthday! We had a lot of fun celebrating Daddy's big 3-0, but since we had just spent a week getting generous portions of Christmas candy, we stuck his candles in some yummy sherbet instead of cake after dinner.

Happy Birthday!

It's no secret that Grant and I love a good homemade dance party. We're so stoked that the apple doesn't fall far from the trees...



Groovin!

It's always a big pile of fun here with the Farnsworths!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Instilling a love for books...

...though not necessarily reading them.

We've mentioned before on here that we've been making certain acquisitions for our children's library (Santa even helped us round out our smattering of Dr. Suess tales). I read to her pretty often, but we're just getting to the point that she'll actually sit in my lap and let me read her a story--as long as I only read the board books that are only one short sentence per page. Anything other than that, and I can read aloud in the same room as her while she crawls around, but don't expect her to be interested. Someday, right?

One recent quiet evening I realized it was a little too quiet (I can't believe how fast the age of quiet being a sign of trouble came!) and after a little investigation I found this:

That's right, she cleared out the entire shelf.

And gave each book an individual examination.

And then sat down in the pile of her library to reexamine a few of them...

It's a vast spread.

Just as I'm about to groan, she goes and gives me a face like this:

So I can't be that annoyed. For long.

I was worried that like with the one shelf of DVDs that she clears out as many times a day as I'm willing to put them back for her, that she'd be emptying this shelf all the time. I totally lucked out though, because it's been over 10 days now and this was the only time she's done it. So far.

Though I do look forward to the time I can start reading these to someone besides myself and they're something besides a fun toy to pull off the shelf...

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Surprise!

I feel like I've been kind of a slacker lately with the blog. Although we've had quite a bit going on that's totally blog-worthy, things have been pretty bustling around here for so long that now that I've finally been able to cool things down a bit and have some more time, I've needed some of it for just plain old chillaxin.

But, I started thinking about how blog-lazy I've been so I pulled out the video camera to see what Kendra would do for us.

She did not disappoint.



Did you see that?!?

She's taken ONE step several times now, but this is the furthest she's gone ever. She'll be running circles around me before I know it!

Awesome!!

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Just because the Ashoflower loves the Farns...

With my spare minutes here and there over the past few weeks, I've been taking the time to get to know our video editing software a little better. I came up with this.


He has no idea I've been up to this.

Though he just had a birthday (to be recorded later here), I didn't know how long it would take me to make this and since I've been so busy it's been taken me several weeks to get a feel for what the program can do and what I can do with it. So this isn't any sort of belated Christmas or birthday present, it's for no reason at all. Just because.

And by the way, Farns. Thank you ever so much for loving me. You'll never know what it means to me.

Enjoy!

Friday, January 1, 2010

A Perfect Present for the Farns

Kendra gave me an awesome present this year for Christmas.


That's right, A Kill-A-Watt. It's an electricity usage monitor. You plug it in and then plug something into it and it tells you how many watts are being munched. And you can attach it for hours or days to find out how many kilowatt hours something uses over a period of time.

I think it's the greatest thing. You know why (or at least one reason)? Our electricity bill doubled when we moved into this apartment. We didn't change anything about our habits. The heating and cooking are natural gas in both apartments. So what the heck is the deal? At least when the dude who broke into our car and stole our GPS did it, we understood why and how. This electricity thief is so much more subtle.

So I did an electricity audit of the house. I calculate that the marginal cost of electricity according to our bill is just over 11 cents per kilowatt hour (not including the $10 fixed fee). This will tell me the influence of various household items on our electric bill.

I learned a lot. And now you are going to.

Ashley's computer (just the box, not the monitor), when idle, consumes 52 watts. My computer, on the other hand...89 watts. The two computers are nearly identical. Really there are only two differences: mine has a new power supply that I installed after burning the other one up (oops), and mine has a graphics card while hers uses onboard graphics. Quite a big difference. Actually both of these numbers look pretty good compared with the 110 watts my old computer consumes when on. Of course these are all idle numbers. I started encoding mp3's, and watched the wattage shoot up by about 40 watts. I bet when it's really working it goes up much beyond that. We looked into our operating system settings and realized you can set it so your computer will go into hibernate when you press the power button. It takes just a second and makes the electricity usage go down to almost nothing. Then when you press it again the computer is back in like 2 seconds. Since we often walk away from our computers for hours at a time and leave them on, we can save a lot of power by doing this habitually. And now we do. We used to try and actually turn them off when we did this, but it takes so dang long to reboot (especially with her computers...stupid windows). Now we just sleep them, and everyone's happy.

My study of these monitors is even more informative. My 22-inch LCD monitor consumes 20 watts of power. Clearly those monitor manufacturers have really worked on power consumption and the LED lighting really works. Think about it, an incandescent light bulb eats like 60-75 watts, right? Then I checked Ashley's monitor, which is nearly identical to mine. 38 watts. That's almost twice what mine consumed. I looked into the settings and realized I had my brightness turned somewhat down while hers was at 100 percent. You can't really tell by looking that my settings are different. We turned hers down and I literally watched the wattage go down from 38 watts to 17. If you want to save power on your monitor, turn down the brightness. On these monitors it doesn't make much difference in the user experience but it makes a big difference in power consumption. The other settings, like contrast, don't make any difference. Also interesting was that if we turned on my screen saver, which just turns the monitor black, the power usage goes up by 3 watts. I think maybe "blank screen" turns up the LED backlight or something. Anyway monitors don't really get burn in and it consumes power, so don't use a screen saver. One more thing of note: neither Ashley's monitor nor mine consumes any detectable power at all when off. And when you turn the computer off so the monitor goes into sleep mode it also uses an undetectable amount of power--nothing is gained by actually pressing the off switch. These monitors are very efficient. By the way I checked my old LCD monitor too. It's 25 inches and uses a halogen backlight instead of LED. That sucker pulls 98 watts when idle. Even when it's completely turned off it eats up 8 watts, which is about as much as my bedside lamp. There's a real difference between the old and new technology (though they are both LCD...who knows how much the old CRT monitors used).

It has been estimated that 11% of a household's electricity consumption goes to idle electronics. Almost all electronics consume power even when they are completely turned off. And there's a lot of variety in how much they consume. I haven't actually measured all my devices yet, but I will. Because they only consume a couple of watts or so when off they aren't as easily measured using the kill-a-watt. The best way to do it is to leave them plugged in for a long time and measure the watt-hours used. That takes time. I did find a couple of interesting ones, though. For example, my desktop speakers munch 10 watts when playing music, 9 watts when on but idle, and 5 when completely turned off. That's one thing I kind of wish I could unplug. For reference, 5 watts is also the amount my computer consumes when turned off...and that has to do a few random things like keep my ethernet card on so I can turn the computer on remotely. The stereo in my daughter's room eats just as much, when off. There are lots of such devices around the house. Every outlet is laden with these little guys, each eating 2 to 5 watts each all day every day. Better to unplug them when you can. Now I kind of want one of these babies

It's a smart power strip. It completely turns off power to peripherals when they are turned off. I'm not sure how well it works (how does it know whether 7 watts is a device that is on or off?), but I think it's a great idea. Of course, it would take a long time for the electricity savings to pay for the $30 the thing costs. But that doesn't make it any less of a great idea.

A few other interesting items: the compact fluorescent bulb lamp that lights our living room: 12 watts when on. Pretty efficient. Compare that to the 400 watts or so our hall lights use (no I couldn't measure, that's just adding up their wattages...they are the kind that dim).

The other thing I wondered about was our deep freeze. I have been toting that around for a while and I always wondered what the costs were in electricity. I tested it for hours and found an average usage of less than 30 watts. That comes to about 2 dollars a month in electric costs. I say it's worth it.

But I bet you are wondering what the answer to my big question was. Why did our electric bill go up so much? I tested our refrigerator (which came with the apartment). The average wattage was over 150. That's like 1300 kilowatt-hours a year, almost three times what a modern refrigerator consumes. On a monthly basis, that comes to about $12 dollars. Ok that doesn't completely resolve the question of electricity costs, though it contributes significantly to it. The freezer part of our refrigerator is always frigid even though we have it turned all the way to warm. And the refrigerator part is always quite warm, even though we have it turned all the way to cold. Probably a bad thermostat or something. Also we moved the grate and looked at our cooling coils and they were completely covered in a carpet of thick lint--a nice insulating blanked preventing the coils from doing their job. We probably can't get our landlord to get us a more modern fridge, but at least we can clean off the coils.

Looking at the difference in electricity usage between our two food cooling devices was quite shocking. I mean the deep freeze holds a lot more food and keeps it colder. From what I understand, deep freezes are more efficiently insulated and of course the cold doesn't always fall our when you open the lid. Also they aren't always trying to prevent frost formation. Some smart soul out there hooked a thermometer to a power switch and converted their deep freeze to an ultra efficient refrigerator (it turns of power to the freezer when the temperature gets down as low as desired). Apparently the thing consumes only like 37 kilowatt-hours per year! Given the low cost of deep freezes (mine only cost about $150) and the simplicity of the conversion, I got really excited about the prospect of making my own deep freeze refrigerator and just putting the one that came with this apartment outside or something. Alas, it turns out in marriage you only get to have things your way when you are the only one affected. Some day when we have a basement, I'll make a deep freeze refrigerator for it, and it won't make a noticeable difference on our power bill at all. My dream refrigerator:


In mean mean time, I wish I could figure out a way to pipe freezing air from outside into our freezer. It's like 10 degrees outside...why does my refrigerator work hard all day long? It's also just crazy that our fridge sits right next to the furnace. One tries to heat the air around it while the other tries to use that same air to cool itself.

Anyway, our inefficient refrigerator is a major portion of the variable part of our electric bill. The fixed costs here in Chicago are probably higher than up in Evanston and so are the taxes. That is probably the rest of the difference. But that fixed part is out of my control and therefore so much less fun than planning the ultimate do-it-yourself food cooling system. I think we can all agree on that.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

The Many Faces of Kendra

Chillin' like a villain:
Out of sorts:
Down-right upset:
"Oh! Woe is me!"

Curious:
Cheesin' it:
Think, think, think:

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Baby Girl to Big Girl

There is brand of clothes that dubs their infant sizes, "Just One Year". I thought it was sweet when I first saw it but as this first year with Kendra rapidly draws to a close, I'm realizing how true it is...she's really not our tiny baby anymore. Weird! Though at the rate we're going, I'm not going to get used to being her mother any time soon. It's still weird to realize I'm married. To Grant. Whoa.

So here's our big girl, standing so well on her own...

She sure does love that authentically Australian kangaroo Auntie Kelly gave Mommy!

So much fun!

Mmm, delicious.

I think it's part the fact that she's standing and part the fact that she's standing in some super-cute jeans that make her look so old. She's gotten pretty good at it. She even took her very first step today! Just one, but it was deliberate and distinct. We all gotta start somewhere, right?

It's been so interesting to watch her grow and develop. Kendra has taken an invested interest in the shower. It's actually gotten to be a problem. She's started pulling the curtain away from the wall while someone is in the shower, which gets water everywhere, and we're trying to see how we can discourage that behavior without banning her free-roaming privileges and shunning her into her crib for shower time...but in the meanwhile, it does encourage me to bring her into the shower and bathe her more regularly than I would of my own accord. I don't think I'm a negligent mother...she just doesn't get that dirty, y'know?

But yesterday, she even got two showers. Once because she was convincing enough while I was showering and once because we experienced the blow-out diaper of all blow-out diapers later the same day. I knew it was going to be bad because I actually heard it happen, but she literally had poo on her arms! That's something I was convinced wasn't possible until it happened to me.

But, since one of us wasn't in the shower with her and she was covered well enough, I decided to get a few bath time fun shots. We've come a long way from the newborn who screamed so loudly and horrifically that I couldn't bring myself to bathe her more than once a week because I knew how much she hated it...

"What? Clearly, this shampoo bottle is a toy."
And that's the Gospel Truth. There was much weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth when we took it away.

"Uuhhhh..."
I just liked how the water was sprayed everywhere in this one. :)

One thing's for sure though, whether Baby Girl or Big Girl, she sure is a Happy Girl (most of the time) and we absolutely adore her.

It really is just one year, but it's been sooo much fun. And all the better because we got to do it together.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Ahh, technology...

Today I finally was able to successfully do something I've been meaning to for a long time, and now that I have I can share some fun things with all of you!

Isn't technology great? I love it. I remember when cell phones were the size of bricks and only the very rich and elite had them. Now, a layman can get one that could produce a feature film and hack into the Pentagon for just a few hundred dollars. Not really, but you catch my drift. And while I don't need to shoot a movie or deploy nuclear weapons, I do love having a camera phone and the ability to take pictures I can use for the background.

Kendra wasn't even 2 hours old when I asked Grant to take one I could send out to everyone...though for some reason that was during a period of time I could neither send or receive pictures. Boo.

Then we captured some of her first smiles at church one day when I didn't have my camera on me...alas, it's a little blurry as babies are wont to be in motion when they're awake. :)

Once she was about a month old, we started a daily tradition I LOVED. We took a nap together every morning and when she woke up, I'd lay on my side and sit her in the crook of my lap and play with her. It was so much easier to cope with the sleep deprivation when I had these moments to look forward to...

And I've learned that the pictures that work best for being wallpaper on my phone are centered a little differently than I normally would, so there's lots of space on top where the clock, battery level and signal strength are displayed, but we can still squeeze in some cute smiles.

I make sure to put up a new one every couple of months and this is the one I've currently got. She's so fun!

It's a fun and sentimental journey to click through the pictures on my phone and see how they're a scrapbook of my life. But for me the best part is the very first photo I took when I got the phone two years ago. I was hanging out with my boyfriend and snapped a smile from him that became not just the first picture on my phone, but the first one I used as wallpaper...

Turns out, he's even more special to me now. :)

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas!

Sunday, December 20, 2009

More trouble

Turns out, we did take a picture of a toilet paper incident...this batch stuck to her pajamas and made it down the hallway and into the living room. Awesome.

Now, I'll bet that form of fiber makes Metamucil tasty!

These next photos are pictures of one of Kendra's favorite toys: my alarm clock. She makes a beeline for it every single time she follows me into our bedroom.



But, even if she drops it on the floor and resets it...it's still hard to be too irritated with her. She's just too dang cute doin' it. (Instead I've started putting it up on my dresser before I let her into the room, and I really have to hustle to beat her to it)

This weekend, Grant and I were out when I spotted a display of Terry's Chocolate Oranges (and here's a picture) and I asked for one because they're soooo yummy! We whacked and unwrapped one tonight after dinner and enjoyed a few slices and Grant put the rest of it to the side. Guess who found the package?

That's what we get for not being more careful while we were watching Charmed...(yes, Charmed).

Turns out, if a ten-month-old gets their hands on a piece of milk chocolate, it melts real quick...

However, we've discovered something through this: we can start having an annual holiday tradition of chocolate oranges because the entire Farnsworth family thinks they're finger-lickin' good. :)

This week a pretty nasty illness made its rounds, and Daddy was the first to go down. He stayed from the office and worked from home on Tuesday, which we all really loved! Granted, it wasn't like the weekend where he could just play with his little girls all day, he did have to actually put in a full day's work...but with little time-outs.

That Daddy, he's the best!

Thursday, December 17, 2009

More babyproofing

As Kendra is such a sweet little baby who is content to follow me around everywhere, we've gotten into the habit of her just coming into the bathroom with me and playing while I take a shower. And we were feeling pretty good about her ability to get into trouble in there--the cabinets under the sink have been baby-proofed and we've been good about remembering to keep the trash can up high and the toilet lid down.

However yesterday while I was taking my shower I noticed it was very, very quiet. I've posted a video of her playing, she's normally quite vocal even if we're not interacting. So I peeked my head out to check on her.

Kendra was sitting right by the tub, about five feet away from the toilet paper roll, and not only was there a trail of toilet paper leading from the roll on the wall to her hands, but she was continuing to pull it and unroll it by the armload. And, just after I poked my head out to watch, she stopped pulling on it and just started ripping what was in her lap into shreds because as fate would have it, this stuff rips up pretty easily. And from the look on her face while she was doing it, it's an absolute ball to do.

And I was still in the shower. All I could do was watch.

When I told Grant the story after he got home from work and noticed the mangled roll of toilet paper, he asked why I didn't take a picture once I did get out of the shower. Well, she's figured out that she's cute and she knows what to do when we get out the camera. Although it's a really funny story that I would like to remember I figure it's not good to give her positive reinforcement for a bad behavior--no sense in disciplining a ten-month-old (today!) so at least try to not encourage the stuff you don't want them to do.

So I did take this picture this morning so that I could tell the story here. Actually, once I brought her into the bathroom, she immediately started to very enthusiastically reenact her crime. Hence, the rubber duck for distraction.

But, if you come to visit us and need to use the restroom, we'll likely be keeping the toilet paper on the back of the toilet from now on. We do apologize for the inconvenience...

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Development

Have I mentioned lately how much I love being a mother? It's seriously the COOLEST job on the planet.

I mean first, I get to hang out with this beautiful little girl.


Yep, she's awesome.

And, she's smart. A full year of fish oil 3 times daily to develop her brain and we're finally starting to see the smartness.

I took this video last week when I saw her figuring out a toy Debbie handed down to us (but as far as their youngest is concerned, it's still hers, not ours). I popped all the things up, and she learned that they go down (except that number four with the turning mechanism--it's a doosy).



Then today I took this one. She totally started doing this on her own. Granted, it was more impressive when I looked over and watched her do it over and over again for an extended period of time, but what are you going to do?



See? Genius!

Okay, so maybe we can't exactly certify that, but it's the coolest thing ever to see her develop and do stuff like figure out part of a toy like this. I mean, this time last year she was a bump in my stomach and look at her now!

She's amazing.

This Mommy gig totally rocks.

Monday, December 14, 2009

Mmm, delicious!

We were out for a long time on Saturday. So long that we ended up grabbing dinner before heading home. It was the first time we've gone out with the baby for quite a while, and we realized we could satiate her rumbling stomach with some of our yummies instead of freaking out that Mommy had misjudged how long we'd be out and we didn't have a bottle or formula on us. Hurray for fried rice and lo mien from Panda Express!

It was cuter when she had several noodles hanging out of her mouth instead of just one, but I just wasn't quite fast enough...

She still looks pretty cute doin' it, though. :)

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Chicago Baby

Winter really hit us with one fell swoop here in Chicagoland. We really went from the "Should I wear a jacket or a coat?" weather to the "Holy cow, it's so dang cold outside!!" weather pretty much overnight. When that first stage of weather hit, one day Kendra and I were walking out of the post office and we were blasted with some really strong, cold wind. It really surprised her and she was pretty taken aback by the intensity of the cold gust all the way to the car.

"Oh, Baby, I'm so sorry, but you were born in Chicago and it gets REALLY cold and REALLY windy here and unfortunately this is just the beginning..." I told her as we walked. Yes, I realize she's only nine months old and has no idea what I'm saying, but I still talk to her like that all the time. Eventually she'll talk back, right?

And last week, we got our first taste of bitter cold (no lie, the HIGH for the day was 11 degrees) and we had errands to run so I bundled her up appropriately. I had her in thermal underwear (tops and bottoms), socks that literally go up to her thighs (but that doesn't stop her from pulling them off if she can), pants, a nice thick sweater, and this awesome coat that was so generously handed down from Mike and Laura with a good warm hat I picked up at a local thrift store.

She hates it! All the bundling totally zaps her mobility and at one point she actually just rolled over and laid herself down in defeat. After that sad, sad moment I made it a point to get out the door in such a way that putting her coat on is the very last thing I do before we walk out the door and taking it off is the first thing we do when we walk back in.

Poor thing. It reminds me of this scene from A Christmas Story...she totally looks at me heart-broken like I've betrayed her every time I bundle her up.

Seriously, if anyone has any leads for Grant to work anywhere else, you let us know. We gotta get this kid out of the cold!

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Laughing until we hurt...

Grant and I have been watching Everybody Loves Raymond and we're finally about to wrap up the series. Often when we're watching I pause it to tell Grant why the episode's drama is kinda dumb because the wife is being totally unreasonable.

In the episode we're watching tonight, Raymond had given his wife a necklace for her birthday that she began the episode announcing that she loves it and that people have been giving her compliments about it all week long. Only low and behold, Raymond didn't even buy the necklace, his mother did. Raymond had forgotten about her birthday altogether.

Pause.

Okay, this is totally unreasonable, and it doesn't make him a bad husband. It makes him a man. A busy, working man. And it doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife.

I turned to Grant to make these statements and I illustrated my point by asking, "Do you know when my birthday is?"

He sheepishly sat in silence. "I'll remember it...soon..."

And he came up with the right date, July 8th.

And I said, "But you probably won't think to yourself on like June 2oth, 'Ashley's birthday is coming up, I need to get her a present...' You probably won't remember until July 7th, right?" Mind you, this is not a dis. It's just how a man is.

"I will if Facebook tells me..."

We started laughing out loud at the truth of this. And then I realized what was actually funny.

He hadn't remembered when my birthday was, I had just added pictures on Facebook and my profile was up, which announces that my birthday is July 8.

Ohhhh, it was hilarious. We laughed for a couple of minutes straight, and that's exactly my point in thinking it was totally unreasonable for Debra to be mad at Raymond. But you might have had to be there. I love Grant so dearly...but he's horrible with dates. In fact, if Facebook, me, his mother or his sister never reminded him about all the family birthdays, no one would get any happy wishes from him. And it's not a dis or a bad thing. He's warm and kind and loving in many ways, it would make about as much sense for me to get offended that he doesn't remember when my birthday is as would to get offended at a dog for chasing a cat.

But it makes him feel like a failure as a husband when that stuff slips his mind, so could someone of the female persuasion please remind him when my is coming up so that he doesn't feel terrible when he sees the reminder on his Facebook sidebar realizes he doesn't have enough time to get me something?